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Got Rid of a "Loved" One

July 7th, 2009 at 06:49 pm

It was finally time to say goodbye. For years DH has cared for our "loved" one but no to no avail. The 1991 Nissan has finally bit the dust and went to the junk man! I bought this car brand new for about $8K out the door. DH has painstakingly maintained this vehicle - changing the oil, brakes, etc. But now the damage is not worth the cost of repair. Seems the timing chain is off (I am not the best with car lingo) and can barely run. Smog is due in Sept. and she always seems to fails the test. The cost to repair is too excessive. Even to reap the $1000 that the lovely state of CA offers for vehicles that don't pass smog. Too much effort. Car does not qualify for the Cash for Clunkers Program because it already is cash efficient. But all in all, I think I got my money's worth. About 245,000 miles on the original engine and mileage was about 35 miles per gallon (estimate was about 28). DH used it for the last few years as his work car. So, I got $175 and the battery (DH gave the junk man a core so that there was no penalty) and a refund of $162 coming from cancellation of the car insurance. We had debated whether or not it would be a good time to buy a car. The answer could be debated both ways. DH would like a hybrid or something similar at some point but would like to wait until the technology has been around a bit longer. So we decided to wait. DH has shifted his driving to one of our other vehicles (a Dodge) that had been primarily stored in the garage. The Dodge is a 2005 model with 6000 miles total. No payment is good! Plus with a possible retirement coming I do not want any additional monthly expenses. When I retire I will lose my daily commute of 20 miles each way. I plan to ride a bicycle with cargo trailer locally for shopping, etc. to save even more.
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Off the car topic, does anyone have any quick ideas for my 11 year old DD for summertime? She is basically home with DH during the day. I do have a camp scheduled for her at the end of the month. We will have some family camping time in August before she starts middle school. Soccer will start in August. I am trying to restrict her "electronics" time -- TV, Nintendo DS, and Computer time can be brain-draining not enhancing if done too much! She is also reading books from the library but is complaining that she is too bored. Most of the activities that I think of are things that we do together. DH is not the type to take on crafts. So I am looking for things she can start on her own. I did ask her to make a list of things she likes to eat as well as things that she might like to cook. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

4 Responses to “Got Rid of a "Loved" One”

  1. whitestripe Says:

    what about some type of craft? you could figure out who's birthdays are coming up and make the cards in advance. coloured paper, old magazines, glue, scissors, twine, etc all these things you probably have in your house anyway.
    you could get her to make pretty tins too, used for holding pens, knicknacks, even kitchen utensils. just get pretty paper (or paint it first) and wrap it around tin cans.

    hmmm. gardening? she could start her own little flower patch?

    do you have beads and those sorts of things? she could make some jewellery.

    cooking, perhaps with DH supervising she could get everything prepared for dinner. when i was 6 i made my first ever meal, vegetable soup, and i remember being SO proud. Big Grin

  2. miclason Says:

    Do you know how to knit, crochet, embroider? You could teach her the basics (1 stitch) and then she could continue on her own. I taught Ale how to chain stitch in crochet and she uses it to crochet necklaces and bracelets...

  3. nmboone Says:

    Awww. I know what you mean by loved one. I love my car so much! I was telling someone today that I didn't know what I would do if it were wrecked! Be pretty upset I guess.

  4. SavingBucks Says:

    Thanks for all the great craft ideas! I plan to discuss with DD ASAP. She does love crafts and I have spent a small fortune on beads at Joann's. Grandma actually taught DD to knit about a year ago - so I may be able to jump start that hobby again. I have asked DD to write down all meals that she likes (I am trying to get a lot healthier and cut out processed foods) so that at least she can work on prep a day ahead. DH is a bit cooking phobic (another long story) so in depth assistance is out. Plus DD is old enough to do a lot herself.

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